Debunk Lies with Ephesians Part 5 Offense

"In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace,"Ephesians 1:7

Common lie: Someone wrongs me so I am justified to hold offense.

Ephesians 1:7 speaks about forgiveness and the rich grace of God, which  debunks the lie that we are justified in holding onto offense. Proverbs 19:11 states, "It is to one's glory to overlook an offense." To "overlook" does not mean to dismiss wrongdoing; rather, it teaches us not to fixate on or dwell on the wrongs done to us or to engage in fault-finding. When offense takes root, it can grow into resentment and anger. We have the choice either to feed the offense or to choose forgiveness.

Understanding the depth of forgiveness and the richness of His grace helps us to forgive and extend that same grace to others. This shift in focus allows us to conserve our energy and emotional reserves for more constructive pursuits and aligns us with God. Most importantly, it can free us from what is known as the bait of Satan—the offense—so we can live in peace of mind and maintain relationships with others.

Thus, by forgiving as we have been forgiven and overlooking offenses, we avoid wasting our energy on negativity. Instead, we focus on developing a mindset akin to Christ's and building a life that is made for God's calling.

Scripture Immersion:

Reflect on a time you struggled to forgive someone. How did it affect your peace and spiritual life?

Prayer:

Abba Father, I refuse to hold onto offense or to focus on any wrongdoing. Help me to embrace the redemption and forgiveness I have received through Your grace. As I declare the truths of Proverbs 19:11, empower me to overlook offenses and receive the glory that comes from acting with wisdom and patience. Let me be a vessel of Your peace, showing others the same forgiveness You have shown me. In Jesus' name, Amen.