Love Is… Part 5

Love does not behave rudely." - 1 Cor. 13:5,

Love is not rude. The Greek word aschēmone refers to actions or manners that are not fitting with standards of propriety and politeness. Good manners and cultivating good etiquette do not require coming from a prestigious family or a high socioeconomic background. The essence of good manners is being sensitive to others, ensuring that people feel valued and respected. Biblical love encourages good manners, not out of superficial politeness, but from a culture of honor.

In ancient Greek culture, which highly valued the concepts of honor and shame, being rooted in love compels our behavior towards others to honor them, avoiding actions that could be deemed shameful or disrespectful.

When we embody love, our manners are driven not by superficial politeness, but by a deep-seated respect that recognizes the inherent value God places on every individual. Thus, when we embody God’s love, our interactions naturally become more considerate and sensitive to others' feelings. We refrain from displaying behaviors that demean or are rude, such as interrupting others, talking over them, or engaging in behavior that could cause embarrassment or discomfort. Instead, when we truly love others, our grace-filled interactions make people feel valued and esteemed.

Reflection:

In what ways can you practice sensitivity in your interactions today to reflect the love and grace that God extends to us?

Prayer:

Thank You for Your agape love that teaches us not to behave rudely but to treat others with sensitivity and respect. Help us choose words and behaviors that reflect Your grace and kindness. May our words and actions not only meet social standards but genuinely reflect the love You have for each person we encounter. Teach us to see and treat everyone with honor and dignity. In Jesus’ name, Amen.