Love is… (Part 7)
"Love is not easily provoked." - 1 Corinthians 13:5
The Greek word παροξύνω (paroxynō) translates as "to sharpen against," implying stimulation to a point of reaction, akin to a trigger. Typically, this leads to anger, but παροξύνω also means arousing to anger and even despising. This progression reveals common stages of emotional response:
Initial Irritation: Being provoked or stimulated into a reaction.
Next Stage: If the initial irritation is not managed or if the provocation intensifies, it may escalate to anger.
Manifestation as Scorn/Despise: In a more intense form, prolonged anger or irritation might evolve into scorn or despisal. Consequently, the person of provocation is not just a source of irritation but becomes something regarded with contempt or as unworthy.
When we view others with contempt, it stands in direct opposition to love. Thus, embodying love requires us to exercise patience and tolerance, extending kindness, forgiveness, mercy, and grace. We need God’s help to prevent these stages from escalating.
Reflection:
How can you seek God’s help to prevent initial irritations from escalating into deeper negative emotions? Reflect on times when you could have paused to invoke God’s grace before reacting.
Prayer:
Abba Father, we confess our human tendency to be easily irritated, which can lead us to anger and even despise others. We are grateful for your unconditional Your grace and mercy. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit, that we may embody the love described in 1 Corinthians 13, not easily provoked and quick to forgive. Help us to see others through Your eyes of love and extend the same patience and kindness You show us daily. In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.
