Seasons of Life – Part 4

"Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom." Psalm 90:12 

Many people believe that our 30s and 40s are the most productive years. However, research and history show that the 50s to 70s can actually be one of the most productive periods. Many Nobel Prize winners, presidents, and church leaders have reached their peak influence and contribution in these years.

Once again, I’m sharing Pastor Les Bowling’s observations on the different stages of life. This is not doctrine, but rather an observation of how we may grow through various life stages.

The 40s: Struggle

The 40s can feel like halftime in a sports game—a moment to reflect and adjust for the second half of life. This stage often brings a sense of struggle as we engage in an honest evaluation of the first half:

• What has worked? What hasn’t?

• What truly matters? No one on their deathbed wishes they had made more money. Instead, they wish they had been kinder, spent more time with family, and made a meaningful impact.

• The 40s begin a shift from success to significance, which may require adjustments—often uncomfortable but necessary for growth.

This is the decade to redefine priorities—seeking purpose, relationships, and a legacy that truly matters.

The 50s: Stride

Many assume that the 50s mark a decline, but in reality, this is a season of finding stride—establishing a rhythm of life with wisdom. Life may feel more settled, and with experience comes a clearer sense of purpose.

- The 50s are not about slowing down but about living with focus.
- Many people become mentors, sharing their wisdom with younger generations.
- There is often a renewed focus on health and well-being.
- Productivity in this stage is not about doing more but about doing what truly matters—finishing the race with intent and enthusiasm.

In the 50s and beyond, life is no longer just about achieving but about impacting and leaving a legacy. When we embrace wisdom and purpose, we move from mere success to lasting significance.

Reflection:

What lessons have I learned from the first half of my life? How can I use my experiences to mentor and uplift others?

Prayer:

Abba father, help me to number my days wisely and to seek not just success, but true significance. May I finish my race with intent and enthusiasm, bringing glory to You in all that I do. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.